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How do I begin to get over this

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Ronnyhotdog · 25/10/2020 20:10

My husband left our family home about 2 months a go. We have been together 23yrs, 2 children. His reason, he was no longer happy.
I don’t know how I’m going to get over it, there is no light at the end of the tunnel. I’ve reached out to people for help, telling them I’m struggling and can’t cope, I keep getting the same answer “ it will get easier” this isn’t helping.
To be honest I don’t know what I want or need from people.
I don’t know where to start, every day is more painful so when does it get easier?

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takeabrolly · 26/10/2020 09:28

There is no magic bullet to make things easier I'm afraid. People who tell you it'll get easier are right, it takes time but it does get easier and one day you'll realise you aren't thinking about the pain you're in and you'll live your new life contentedly.

When my husband left me many years ago I really thought I could die of grief, things were very bleak for me for some time. Now he occasionally flits through my mind but I feel completely neutral about those thoughts. This will pass. Look after yourself and your children x

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