I am thinking of leaving my husband of 5 years, as the relationship is just not making me happy anymore, I suffered with PND after our DD was born 4 years ago And am on medication for this, he also suffered but will not seek help. I am stuck in a rut we never have any money to go places or do things as we have a lot of debt we are trying to clear over the next two and a half years. I'm thinking of staying until then but I can't see myself living like this for that long.
The main reason I don't want to split is we finally have our dream house which I don't want to have to leave and move somewhere I hate, we both earn under 25k so Neither can afford to live comfortably alone! But the equity would clear our debt with 10k each left over.
I also don't want to lose my daughter half the week. It breaks my heart.
Does anyone have any advice on what they would do in my shoes?