H ended it 4+ years ago. Not started divorce???

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Have you been in this position?

What was your experience?

He called it. Between that and me moving out = six months, he never backtracked. However not started proceedings.

WTF! Do I have to do everything?

Two adult children - zero complication.

Take control.

I've been on the opposite side to you. Getting divorced didn't really affect me at all do I didn't persue it. After about 4 years my ex finally got the message and proceeded with the divorce himself, because he wanted to buy a house for himself and disentagle his finances from mine.

I think it might be easier to just wait for 5 years separation and just do it then. Maybe that's what he's waiting for?

He could be waiting for the 5 years seperation although I would say 2 years with consent is just as easy. Maybe he just cant be bothered sorting it. I only got divorced this yr, 6 years after he left! He never bothered starting proceedings or even offer to pay half of the fee. I did it myself in the end because I felt weird being married to someone who lives with someone else. Also my 40th is coming up and I put it on the bucket list to get it done.