Finally accepted marriage is over

[Millshake01]

Omg it's taken months for my husband to finally accept our marriage is over.
I've been so unhappy for years, the lockdown made me realise I really need to sort it out. Lots of time at home, lots of thinking..
I told him half way through lockdown our marriage is over. He was shocked. But He started to look for a place to rent. As the weeks went by nothing was moving along so I questioned him. He asked for one more go at the marriage. And my adult son was making me feel so guilty. So I caved in and said ok we will give it one more go. But I just couldn't get the love that I once had for him back.
Told him again today, marriage has run its time.
We have been together for a very long time. It's taken me 4 years to get the courage to tell him this. He's a very difficult person and quite hot headed at times..
Anyone else going through the same?

Not been in your situation but I do wish you well Milkshake. Good luck with the start of the next phase of your life.

Thank you 🙏

Took me many months to get my ex out. He didn’t love me. We didn’t have a sex life. He said he didn’t find me attractive any more. He did care about me but a sibling type relationship wasn’t for me.

I think he just tried to stay because it was convenient and easy and I did all the housework and most of the cooking.

He knew his next place wouldnt be as nice or cushy as he had with me so he stalled.

But as you say once the love is gone it’s gone and you can’t get it back. So you either need to settle or get him out.

You’ll be fine OP. Stay strong.