This is my first seriously relationship. Met at 23, moved in and married the same year. 7 years and a baby later, I feel like we are going through that 7 year glitch.
I constantly imagine myself single and I go through phases of being totally obsessed with other men I've met at work, exes ect
I'm currently obsessed with the guy who replaced my boiler (fucking ridiculous I know) that I only saw twice and moved out now but out of nowhere I cant stop thinking about him.
I dont feel like I have love for him. I fell into this relationship out of desperation and yes there was love and butterflies at first but it fades very quickly, but because I felt comfortable with him and saw him as a best friend we stayed together. I'm not sure if what I'm feeling is normal though, when I tell him that he says the 7 year glitch is happening and we will be fine after that (?). I have no other relationship to compare so I dont know what to do. I dont want my son to have divorced parents.
I have always like flirting and the newness of a relationship so I dont know if I'm just bored or if were really not meant for each other. Maybe I'm just extremely immature emotionally because of the lack of experience? I would hate to turn my sons word upside down by getting a divorce only to realise it was a huge mistake.
Anyone with more experience than me can advise me on this? If you think about other men does that mean you dont love your husband? What are the signs of a relationship ending?
Thanks