I went through hell with my now ex husband and his family, the abuse and hatred was awful. I still feel I tried so hard to please everyone. Anyway I escaped just before lockdown I moved out with my kids, been happier here but been ups and downs.
The house is going up for sale but I think it got too much for him, he started drinking, crashed his car, sleeping outside. He went missing and the police rang me, to see if I knew anything. I did text his mum and his brother to let me know he was ok. But his mum ignored me and brother just said I don't want to speak to you. I mean I'm sure they are blaming me for his state of mind, he went like this last year and I helped him through it but obviously this time I just have to step back.
I guess I feel vulnerable knowing they all hate me, there's loads of them plus he has a big group of friends. I moved here to be with him so have very few friends here anyway and no family. They know this and are using it to their advantage. How do I get through this on my own?