As previous posts I feel we are finally splitting up. My husband can't move out until lockdown over. I said to try marriage guidance because I wanted to see what a third party thought of my husband having 80grand in bank and not telling me and saying horrible things to me when I caught on and refused to tell me. I guess I'm upset that he called me fucking nosey, a schemer and that I was ruining the marriage. Told me had secrets that were not my concern. It's been bad on and off for years but this was final straw. I am worried as have 5 children. I said about marriage guidance again. We haven't been since lockdown but he offers web sessions. My husband said no point as I told him I feel different about him after what's happened. He keeps saying he has worked hard all his life and will now lose it all. I can't help feel guilty but he has spoken to me like shit for years but never takes blame or says sorry. So hard