My husband has told me it’s over, this isn’t what I wanted and I convinced him to try again... I could tell he was just going through the motions and I finally convinced him to be honest. He’s been seeing someone else. He wouldn’t tell me who, or any details about the person or their situation... I was crushed and completely blindsided. We have a little one together and I find it hard to believe he could of done this. A week on and he is still here. His name is on the house as when purchased I was in education and couldn’t get on the mortgage but I have always paid all the bills and everything related to the baby. He says he will move out until I save up some money, then I’m to move. I’m not to change anything, he won’t be taking anything and he will be coming here to look after the baby on the days I’m at work... I’m waiting for the anger to hit me, because everyone says that it’ll come. But at the moment, I just feel sad that I’m losing him and that he is being so cruel. He won’t tell me anything, he says it’s not my business anymore where he goes or what he does. I actually tried to convince myself I could change his mind, pathetic I know. Any advice or wisdom would be appreciated x