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Consent order

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serendipity909 · 19/02/2020 18:47

I wondered if anyone had experience with short marriages where one partner brings basically all the money into a marriage.

It was the case that before I married my husband I inherited enough, along with my own savings, to purchase us a house without a mortgage. It was put into joint tenants at his demand (He said it wouldn't feel like his home). I realised this was a stupid mistake now.

I have also inherited another substantial amount of money which I am due to receive this year.

We are both young (Late 20's) and both on similar salaries (Only around £15,000) etc.
We have discussed the idea of splitting up after about 6 months of marriage and 1.5 years total cohabiting and he suggested I could give him money and I'd keep the house. He suggested a fairly 'reasonable' figure but it only amounts really to a small portion of the overall 'pot'.

I have spoken with a solicitor who has said it's unlikely my second inheritance would be considered in the financial settlement and I will certainly be keeping this separate and fully in my name and not using it to benefit us in any way.

My question is that would a judge approve a consent order with such a big discrepancy in finances?
Considering we could not have bought the house without my inheritance and we are child free and such a short marriage etc, both young and able to still earn and save etc.

I wondered if anyone has experience where the split is decidedly uneven but for a fair reason?

OP posts:
millymollymoomoo · 19/02/2020 20:32

It’s probably likely based on what you’ve said you’ll be put back to starting position therefore he probsybr

millymollymoomoo · 19/02/2020 20:32

Oops
Probably won’t get a lot

justdeckingthehalls1 · 19/02/2020 22:23

Surely whether the judge agrees will also depend on whether your husband contests it? If he states he's happy, I would think that would go a long way

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