Just wanting to ask what was the final straw of why you left your husband?
Mine has depression and anxiety, but I don't feel he's commited to change and I can't bear the lack of love, support, happiness and intimacy in our relationship. I feel completely alone and on top of that his constant lack of joy and over sensitivity/taking his anger/sadness out on me is just draining the life out of me.
Tonight we had debate if u like, he said i just didnt like it because he disagreed with what i said, but it's because he doesn't talk like an adult, gets angry and closed, he doesn't respect or acknowledge my thoughts or opinions, for once i want him to say 'oh i see now' or 'thats interesting', even 'i dont understand why u feel that way', just gets angry and mega defensive, its so childish and i feel like he's pushing me away by wanting to row/get me into this type of conversation. When i then get riled up im being sensitive and going over the top, i try and explain again why im annoyed and i ask him to resolve the issue by listening to me and acknowledge my opinion and how i feel and then he accuses me of not resolving it.
It's just god dam relentless, i cannot reason with unreasonableness
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