My ex husband currently sees our daughter (under age 2) 3 nights a week, he comes to our home just to play with her then leaves when our dinner is ready, we still jointly own the home but he has moved out. He then has her on a Saturday for 6 hours. He has said he wants to come round every evening Mon-Thurs in the week (we have an evening activity on a Friday otherwise I'm sure he'd ask for that too) and then he wants her on both a Saturday and Sunday every week.
I work 3 days during the week and these are the days he comes round, so I never get to come home from work without him coming round. He thinks he should have her on Saturdays and Sundays because I have 2 days off in the week, but obviously this would mean never being able to do anything with my side of the family at the weekend, or being able to do any weekend activities etc.
Please tell me I'm not being unreasonable by saying no, and that seeing her 3 nights a week and a day every weekend is actually quite good? There has been emotional abuse and controlling behaviours so I'm finding it hard to deal with his constant demands.