im separating but live in our home which is a house,given to my husband as part of his job: part if role helping supported flats for elderly. he lives there too. iam often away with work. hes trying to get me out & move girl friend in. i am trying to sort my new place but im a total wreck at moment-just need a while to organise myself and pack things. what really is my situation as no one seems to be in similar..not renting or buying.can he do this??