My lovely colleague is separating from her husband and today he told her he's transfered all his savings and any other money he has into his sons account that can't be accessed until he is 18.
He is a high earner and pays all the bills. They both work but all her wages are hers apart from paying for food and stuff for their son.
She has no access to any accounts and has no clue about their mortgage, savings or anything in fact. She's let him do everything and is now feeling vulnerable.
He's told her she will have to move out with their son, and rent somewhere and he will get shared custody so he doesn't have to pay her CM. He's also refusing to sell their house.
She's spoken to a solicitor briefly but is waiting for him to make the move with the divorce. I think she should take action but she's happy to wait.
Where does she stand with the fact he's saying there is no money etc as it's in his sons account. Surely a court will see through that? She has nothing to set up a new home for her and her son so is understandbly worried.