Hello all,
Forgive me if there is already a discussion about this (I did a deep dig and couldn’t find one!).
I left my husband nearly a year ago and we have now decided to proceed with Divorce.
We don’t want to wait until we reach a two year separation, we were kind of holding out for No Fault but that doesn’t look like it will happen soon.
We don’t have any shared savings, assets or loans, there are no children involved (again please forgive me if I shouldn’t be posting here! It’s mumsnet is full of such great advice, I lurk here a lot!). So it’s a clean break.
He had accepted that he will take the blame, and I will send him the reasons beforehand so there are no nasty surprises and he can object before we begin proceedings. We are going to do it as DIY Divorce.
My question is in what language do I write the reasons?
Should it be formal as in :
“The respondent has failed to look after himself physically despite the Petitoner’s and Medical professional’s requests to the contrary”
Or would it be
“(husband name) failed to look after himself physically despite mine & Medical professionals requests”
I would really appreciate any input that’s offered!
Thank you for reading:)