need my space.....

[Sararhys1]

I have been married for 20 years we have two adult children , for the past God knows how many years I haven't been happy I want to leave but just cant do it I feel so bad that I feel this way but I just dont love him like I should ...we always argue over the stupidest stuff but he will be cruel with his words as am I.

Need some Advice guys
TIA X

Have you considered relate or similar marriage counselling? It might help your husband comes to term with the end if your relationship if nothing else.
It does seem a shame to walk out of a marriage, however I’m also of the opinion that life’s too short to be unhappy.

No advice, OP. But I’m in the same boat as you with my relationship and have no idea what to do or how to go about it. I hope you manage to figure it out x

It's so hard I'm trying to convince myself that i will get the feelings back but I know I won't. we are going on holiday our first ever alone....so will see what happens and take it from their . I'm fed up of playing happy familys . good luck to you darlingx

Be honest tell him your thoughts see what he says.Is it worth saving or not get counselling if you may if not decide on what needs to be done.
You must say it no matter how hard Please don’t ignore your feelings and thoughts

OP, you are the best judge of whether its time (or even past time) to go, but you might take Chapman's 'Five Love Languages' as holiday reading. About how couples get emotionally depleted and what it takes to make different people to feel loved. It can sometimes be a conversation starter.