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Cheating husband

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grc30789206 · 14/09/2019 07:35

We got married 4 years ago and his family were so difficult, anything from address to his sister going shopping for a bridesmaid was an issue them. After the wedding I didn’t talk to them not even at my little girl’s christening. I encouraged my husband to have a relationship with them but without me.

My husband works in Saudi and has done for 5 years. Our daughter arrived 4 weeks early and he miss it, he has missed a lot of our little growing up and when he is home she is very clingy and won’t stay in the room with him on his own even when I’m in the toilet.

My husband was ignoring my calls and messages for a number of weeks, and when he came he he admitted he had been meeting a Saudi girl, they went for coffee, held hands and he kissed her on the cheek.

For the rest of the trip he kept changing his mind if he wanted me or not. I got the girls number from his phone and the stories match. I promised and sorted things out with his family and took our daughter down to visit on my own when he went back to work.

When he went back to work he said he needed time and the girl was stalking me and phoned my work.

I couldn’t get in contact with my husband about the crazy Saudi girl so I phoned his work, he is so angry that I phoned there.Now he is saying he doesn’t want me.

What do I do? I love him but I feel like I cheated on him and left hanging waiting on him.

OP posts:
latenightsnack · 14/09/2019 09:09

You feel like you cheated on him? Actually he cheated on you.

First of all it was shitty of him to have ignored you for a while but eventually he came clean and said he did not want you anymore. He has every right to say this and you have every right to back out of that relationship.

I don't see what you want out of staying with him, a love triangle with a woman that sees your husband more than you do while you sit at home looking after his daughter?

I'd say leave and move on. No way I'd put up with a partner and his stalker OW. You deserve better.

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