My husband has left me after 23 years of marriage. He is supporting me and kids financially. I am devastated that he has chosen to ‘be on his own and do things for himself’. He pays for everything... more than he need to. We don’t live together but he comes to the house and walks in as if he still lives here. I would like to work on things but he barely talks to me when he comes round which makes me feel awful each time. I want to tell him to meet the kids away from the house so It’s not so painful for me. Am I being unreasonable? I don’t want things to become hostile between us but it is just so painful. My kids are older so are able to meet him without me being involved. When I try to talk about our marriage he tells me he loves me but isn’t happy in it. I am so confused, hurt and betrayed. If he doesn’t want to be with me why doesn’t he just go away?! How should I handle this??