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Divorce/separation

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Anotherdiv · 20/08/2019 14:04

Everyone was telling me to get legal advice for financial settlement. So I went and spend £400 and basically she told me it’s 50/50 to start with. And she can’t tell me exactly or at least roughly if it will be more or less as it’s up to judge.
Well, I knew all that already! Is my solicitor just a joke or is it a normal practice?

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wobytide · 20/08/2019 14:48

It's not up to a judge unless you push it to one.

Assuming the solicitor had access to all the relevant details and have advised that 50/50 is a reasonable start what are you not agreeing with or what are you expecting from them?

Anotherdiv · 20/08/2019 16:44

@wobytide thank you for your reply. I was hoping to learn what proportion the assets would be divided. She basically said to me the starting point is 50/50 and then e have to look into documents.
did bring all documents I had but she didn’t actually look at them, just asked me what they are about.

Maybe I am being unreasonable I don’t know. I just felt that she didn’t say anything new to me. Also I felt pushed to apply to court and instruct her to represent me.

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45andfine · 20/08/2019 16:53

I'm in same situation. They just kind of leave you hanging in that limbo in order to get you to instruct them. Take a look at Wikivorce online it's full of useful info. I paid £200 for same information basically, but now it's all ground to halt because I can't afford a solicitor to progress matters and my ex is living very happily in our only asset and says he can't afford to have a pension expert sort out his pension. I just wanted to us to agree what percentage of house and pension I could have so that we could get a financial agreement and then divorce. I was advised not to get divorced until I had financial agreement because I would lose interest in martial home.

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