I have been thinking about getting a divorce lately, after a long marriage. There is been problems for a long time, he has a bad temper and very self centred, everything is always about him, but deep down I think he is weak. The last few years we have been living separate lives due to his job and when we are together he blames me for no reason and calls me 'stupid women' etc. I have to so careful what I say or do when he is around. I am kinda decided now to get divorced, I don't want to go on like this anymore. That decision has taken a load off my mind already and I feel sane again. I have discussed this with the children who are now grown and thought about the finances, but there is one more thing. He often tells me that he is sad and thinks about taking own life. I am worried if I leave him what is he going to do. Will he fall apart? What do you think?