So yesterday, I messaged my stbxh with an account number and the amount he had to transfer to pay a bill. He said loads of times before that he wants to take care of it on his own from now on. So messaged him with all the details, like he said.
He comes home and in front of our child, he
gets angry, makes me look crazy like he didn't say he wants to pay it himself (he did several times, I'm not crazy) and then he says "I can't believe you did that, how about I stop paying for all your bills and your shit? How about that?"
In front of our child. I just said quickly that I'll pay for it so that he would just leave and let it go because if I said what I wanted, our child would be traumatised and my stbxh doesn't stop and doesn't give a shit that the child is present.
I am tired of being threatened with money. I truly am. It's years of this threat every time he gets angry, years of verbal and emotional abuse. I don't have a question, I just wanted to vent to someone because I'm so hurt and angry. The only comforting thought is that it will be over soon enough.