Help needed. Can my husband do this?!

[Emerald4512]

Hi all,

Currently seperated from husband with the aim to divorce. We have an 8 month old baby together.

He is currently demanding that when I buy him out, he is to get 50% of the equity and 3 nights and 3 days with our son.

My solicitor has stated that this wouldnt be the case due to having a child involved and he wouldn't get 3.nights due to the age of the child.

Has anyone else been through a similar situation? How did you overcome it?

Thank you! X

Sorry, clicked post too soon.

At the time of him leaving our DS couldn't even sit up on his own - that's how young he was!

And mother throw out that they will prevent contact and a whole heap of other nasty crap. I know I did it in the heat of an argument.

OP you are going through a lot of change and it must be extremely hard, tried and think of the time without lo as positive, don't get involved in all the dad basting on here.

Do all you can and more for your child.
Every time I have an unreasonably thought ( sometimes justified) I just stop. My ds is 11 now and he's not insecure or has any negative thoughts towards his df. Who left when he was 8 months. It wasn't always easy, but I just focused on the fact that my own up and down relationship with my df hasn't stopped me loving him so why expect my son to not love his df.