Currently going through a divorce. The child arrangements are all sorted via a court order just awaiting the financial arrangements to be agreed via court. I am slowly moving on with my life and doing ok 90% of the time however my STBXH is still trying to control me. I am constantly getting long winded messages about minor things. I usually try to ignore them. I have given in to him on most things just for an easy life but I am getting to a point where I feel am I going to have to continually bow to his demands for the rest of my life. Also during our relationship he was mentally abusive, this has been the hardest part to get over but I am doing ok. Some of his text messages are mildly threatening. I just want to block him from contacting me but for the sake of my children I don't know whether this would reflect badly on me.