Hi there,
I'm asking this question about a good friend of mine. She is on her second marriage. Her first marriage had her live through almost three decades of abuse. She finally got out of it and has now remarried.
Her new husband regularly goes through her phone. Recently he reactivated an old social media app and started speaking to an individual who was blocked. He spoke to this individual as if he was my friend and then blamed her for having a relationship.
He does this on a regular basis and uses this as an excuse to blame her.
He himself has been caught several times speaking to ex girlfriends and other women and my friend never goes through his phone.
He recently even started to go through my friends mother's phone and used an old pic of a friend during a trip to start an argument.
She is scared to the point where she has changed her number, won't speak to any of her cousins who are male and stays of all social media (previously he got upset when a make cousin spoke to her).
Her recently made her get a lip job although she doesn't like it herself as it's painful.
I want to remain neutral as a friend so I thought I throw it out there.