Me and my ex have a 9 month old. He works sporadic shift work, often nights and has 2 split rest days a week (sometimes together). We have never lived together, but he has just come to visit when he had time. I breastfeed and have never left her with him apart from a few hours. This is due to the fact that he has mental health issues, has attempted to overdose and commit suicide and when I was pregnant threatened to crash the car with me in it.
I am wanting to know what is reasonable access at this time, he is saying he wants 50:50 and I have said no in mediation and he will now be taking me to court.
I'm curious as to what you ladies think is a reasonable amount of contact, I was thinking 1 full day and also an afternoon per week?
Do you think that is ok?