Looking for a bit of advice really… currently going through an acrimonious divorce. STBEXH has moved out of the family home and I am paying all bills / mortgage etc. However, we haven’t reached a financial agreement yet and his name is still on the deeds. He also needs access to the home as he collects children from school, takes them inside briefly for them to get changed before he takes them to afterschool activities (basically they get changed and grab a snack).
So here is the issue… I know that he has been going through my personal belongings in my bedroom, and he moves things in my room as well e.g. the other day he had placed something in one of my drawers. He also took something out of a bag I have in my room and put it on the kitchen worktop.
At the weekend I set up a hidden camera in my bedroom and lo and behold, this morning about 20 mins after I left home he was in my room, digging in my drawers and moving things about.
I’m going to get a lock for my door, but is there anything else I can do about this? I haven’t told him I know what he’s up to.