I saw my solicitor today to sign the consent order. There was an embedded clause in the undertakings that I will not discuss the marriage, the divorce proceedings or the financial settlement unless it's to a professional to get advice.
Since it's embedded in the consent order I could face prison if I break it. We weren't rich or famous. I don't see why I should never be allowed to discuss the marriage or divorce with my family and friends. Yes for him that means he never has to face what he did and his acquiescence in the financial agreements cannot be used to disprove his lies.
Has anyone else faced this? I've queried it and sent it back but could a court force me to sign if we end up in court because xh wants to enforce it? I've already effectively broken the NDA in retrospect because if he'd wanted the NDA he should have been upfront at the start of the divorce.