Just that really, following a horrible nearly 2 year relationship I have discovered he is in 10k debt, has gambled everything he has and has an addiction to it, told me multiple lies and basically I've ended things. Previously he has been aggressive, abusive and controlling, police involved at the start of our relationship for sexual abuse against me but I had a mental break down and dropped charges (please don't bash me for this I was in an awful place and wish I had been stronger to put him in prison)he lives 1 hour ish away at his mother's house, he works around his mum's area too so 1 hour away. I have a ds from previous relationship who currently doesn't see his dad as he's let him down again.
Dd is 10 months old, still breastfeeding and has a visual impairment amongst other things, how much contact should I be looking at? And how? I don't really want him in to my house, he can't take her to his mum's as it's 1 hours there 1 hour back and she still feeds from me. How do contact centres work?
I'm not scared of him anymore but I feel he will try and use my daughter as a pawn for having the nerve to leave his sorry excuse of a person.
Thanks