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Divorce/separation

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Divorce petition

6 replies

Yellowshirt · 17/03/2019 01:31

I've received the petition today. But it is full of lies. I no the best thing to do is sign it and say I don't agree with the reasoning but I want the divorce but how can get the truth about this woman and her family out there so people actually realise what hell I've been through.
I no people will say what's the point but I have literally been destroyed and abused both domestic and financial. She has taken out that much debt in my name I have 3 ccjs.
She gave me a black eye and beat me up but my daughter of 13 just laughed at me today, said mum said you walked into a wall and to get over it. That is so much easier said than done.

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SkinnyPete · 17/03/2019 13:02

I wouldn't sign the petition myself, as you'd be accepting responsibility for her financial abuse, as well as absolving her of any wrong doing with the physical abuse.

You need a good solicitor and quick. I hope you have some form of evidence to backup what you say.

Yellowshirt · 17/03/2019 13:47

I have a photograph with the black eye taken hours after the assault. I have credit reports with the 3 ccjs on.
It says sign the petition but outline that you do not agree to the petition as you want the divorce which obviously I do.

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mummmy2017 · 17/03/2019 17:15

Dim woman, as half the debt becomes hers, make sure you list everything you can find, so she has to take it on.

ArabellaRockerfella · 17/03/2019 18:36

The only person who would read the divorce petition other than your and her lawyers is the court judge. So it wouldn't make anyone realise what you've been through. The quicker you sign and divorce petition the sooner you can split will not be responsible for any new debts. You can state that you don't accept the terms stated but that you will not dispute the petition.

Seapoint2002 · 18/03/2019 11:43

Speak to these people www.mankind.org.uk/
They help men escape domestic and emotional abuse!

SixDot941 · 18/03/2019 13:27

As much as it makes you angry, bite your tongue. He wants to push your buttons. He's been the closest person to you, he knows exactly how to make you angry. Angry people make bad choices for themselves.

It's his way of having a pop at you but remain above it. You don't want him so why care what he says. Disagree with the reasons but act with dignity and integrity. If you are the reasonable one you are more likely to get what you want. If you let him make you angry then you're letting him get what he wants, to hurt you.

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