Is there a time scale?

[Bonkerz]

To move on I mean. Split with stbxh back in Nov. I don't think I'm ready to be in a relationship but when is it ok to attempt to meet new people????
Our split was brewing for a long time. After 17 years we became resentful of each other. No other person involved.

It's ok when you feel it's ok?
I guess the most restrained way is to wait until after you are officially divorced, but that can take a looooonng time and if your ready before why not?
I personally am quite happy to be single for the time being....but if someone amazing strolls into my life I wouldn't turn them down!

When you're ready. Only you can know that. I separated from my not yet xh in July 2017 and met someone in September 2017. I had known for a while that the marriage was over despite my best efforts to change the way I felt.
No one can know when you're ready but you.