Drunk dailing ex keeps calling DC

[mustbebetween4and30]

So my alcoholic ex keeps drunk dailing ds14, who won't answer especially any after 11pm

I keep on telling him to stop, actually I'm going to answer my own question, I LTB'd after 10 years because he would never listen to me asking him to stop.

As soon as the calls started DC gave me his phone, says he doesn't want to see it also asked me if I was getting an calls, the drunk knows better than that now.

The court has ordered him not to do it, but I don't really see how I could prove it as he's still smart enough when drunk not to leave messages.

I suppose I could argue he's harrasxing but it's only a couple if times every month, not daily.

Ds is really really upset and unhappy, I asked how he feels but he says I dunno

It needs to stop, but I don't see how it can be stopped, short of a number change tomorrow. But then that affects all ds' mates. DS has said he's not bothered by a number change.

Can I just say out if frustration here, fucking toxic fucker

If it was me i would record a video on another phone when he drunk calls for the evidence. Failing that I would just block his number so you don't have to change to a completely new number. Hopefully it gets resolved x

I personally would number change. Then get ds a cheap £10 phone only ex had the number too. As soon as he drunk dials switch it off. Plus only he has the number to it so it has to be him calling.
From experience, it's so easy when the abuse starts, to switch the cheap phone off and carry on with life.
Good luck

Does his dad call him when sober?

nope, only when drunk, He asked me this morning to do a number change when I pointed out that he'd have to tell all his mates, he went Ok.

so we're putting the old dim in an old phone for contact day's

Ah OK.

I was just thinking if there's no need for phone contact he should just block the number.