Husband told me he doesn't love me.

[kayl100]

Hi,

I need some help. My husband and I have been distant for a while and had an argument yesterday. I asked him if he loved me, to which he answered no without hesitation... At all.

I'm angry. I'm really upset. I don't know what to do next.

[ivykaty44]

What do you want to do?

Of course you’re angry, hurt and confused. Do you think you’ve just grown apart?

[kayl100]

I want to try to get back to the way it was. I want him to love me,to feel happy to be with me. But what's the point if he doesn't love me.. I feel like my choices are bleak. Either I stay with a man who doesn't love me, or I leave the man I love.

[PlasticPatty]

Take deep breaths.
Plan your separation.
Are there children, do you own property together?
Act now, don't wait in forlorn hope that he might love you again.

[Ayoub69]

my advice to you I man I know how. man thing if you man say to you don't love you that mean you man have same budy you need to be strong when you stronger man follow you

[MissedTheBoatAgain]

To OP

Have you tried counselling? Might help?

Good luck

[kayl100]

I think it's a good step for us. I don't think I'm ready to just give up. We have two children and property too, yes. I don't want my children to grow up with this. It's not fair to them. We have to try. I will talk to my husband and see what he says. Thank you everyone. X

[Nikkik77]

Hi kayl100 I'm sorry to hear what you are going through, it's hard as you love him but you are angry and hurt and a bunch of other feelings, if I was you I wouldn't do anything hasty, you need to speak to him and ask him what is going on, I think once you know what is going on in his head then you can decide what to do and only you can change your life, I'm not going to lie to you and say it's easy because it's not but one thing I can tell you is that you will get over this and come through the other side happy. God bless you love x