Help. It's over wtf do I do now.

[brokeninsideandscared]

This is very outing so NC (and I know the OW is here too, hi ho)

He's leaving. I'm devastated.

Got kids.

I'm keeping the house. I earn the money.

There is an OW.

Not going to divorce him. Can't afford that anyway.

I own half his business too. Not financially (though I've put a lot of joint money in) but on paper and time invested too, as have my family members.

What now?

Why aren’t you divorcing? Has he agreed you keep the house?

Can't afford it. And I am bitter and want to make life difficult for him. Though I know that will change.

He's said I can keep the house. It was mortgaged in my name on my salary anyway. He is a decent guy in some ways and is too scared of my dad! sorry not appropriate to joke I guess.

Going to drink shit loads of wine and think about eating something.

Same here. 10 year marriage over but it is over cycling. He would rather ride a bike than ride me.

I’d personally suggest you divorce and get a clean break order as part of that before he changes his mind on making financial claims on the house and any other possible assets