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Divorce/separation

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dazzer7 · 23/01/2019 08:33

Hi
Just after advice and help
Ill keep it brief
When i was a kid my mum beat me uo and used me to do house choirs if not done right was punished was locked in room most of the time my mum left when i was 14. Managed to cope with life at 21 even got on the property ladder doing well for myself. At 26 met a girl eneded up buying house together havi g a child and getting married at times wasnt sure even my dad knew i wasnt really happy but still satayed with her until she had an affair then she left me for him. Paid her off and eventually got back on my feet seeing my daughter every week. Keeping myself fit and was pretty much happy with life. Then i met another woman ended up moving in my house with her boy. There was ups and downs at times but it was alright ended up having a child with her and she was pushing to get married aswell even asked me. My dad again saw something i didnt but i stayed with her and cut my dad out of my life hard thing was he was dying of cancer. On my wedding day i got a call early morning where he was in a home a he tryed to tell me something and then took his last breath and died. I went ahead with the wedding and the funeral was before are honeymoon. We went on the honeymoon everythings was great 1 month later she came saying i didnt get her i was shit in bed. I left to stay at my brothers house. The next day she changed all the locks on my house and said i couldnt see my boy. I was that down has my world had been turned upside down and also my previous ex wasn't letting me see my daughter due to wanting claim csa of me. I attempted suicide and was in a coma for 2 days and stayed in hospital. My wife at the time was playing mind games with me ant tryed to get me sectioned. 3 months later she has had a new fella in het lifer and stopping at my house which she has stopped me going to by a court order. To be honest i cant believe that this can happen in life and everyone tells me i dont deserve it. Where am i meant to go in life with this and nobody really wants to get involved with that much baggage in someones life. Any advice would be good right now thank you

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sollyfromsurrey · 23/01/2019 08:43

Struggling a bit to get a handle on your post. First question I have is regarding your first relationship. You say your ex is wanting to get CSA out of you. Are you not paying anything for your first child?

Second, are you seeking an actual divorce from your second wife? It's not up to her who gets the house. It's up to the courts. It's also not up to her whether you can see your child.

Seek proper legal advice.

dazzer7 · 23/01/2019 08:48

I wasnt paying csa on first wife because it was equal custody. When she gave up hours at work and brought a bigger house she wanted money off me the only wayvto do that was let me have my daughter less so now i have to pay csa.

Cant get a divorce yet has not been married for a year yet but courts seem to favour my ex partner and stop me seeing my boy and going in my house that i own.

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