2 weeks ago after a big row and him not talking to me for a week I'd had enough and wanted oh to leave but didn't tell him. I spoke to my parents, best friend and people at work about it I went to a women's advice centre they were meant to ring me with the details of a solicitor but haven't. He still hasn't apologised he's been a bit nicer this week and now I'm so confused. I can't leave at the minute we have a house up for sale I can't claim universal credit until it's sold we accepted an offer in Oct but things seem to have stalled. I only work 30hrs in a term time job on uc when the youngest is over 13 id have to work over 35hrs I'm a ta, ta jobs are rarely 35hrs. I bought this house outright with an inheritance it's registered as 70/30 in my favour. I had a 2 year court battle which was awful i dont want to lose the house it feels like all the stress of the case was for nothing. I feel like splitting up would be horrible for the children and really hard financially but I can't stay just because it's easier. I'm lonely but as a single parent I'd be even more lonely. My dd is 11 and a real daddies girl I think it would hit her so hard. I just don't know what to do. My confidence is so long I don't feel strong enough to deal with anything right now.