My x is a game playing he is abusive violent he has a non mol in his name. This will of expired by the time we go to our court hearing for the children.
They are 8 and 15
Earlier my ex told me he was going to do anything to stop me being with the children. He said I was an evil controller, which is quite ironic as that is what he is. This all came about because I said I had plans with our youngest daughter this weekend.
So he if and when we go to court he will try and make out he is the primary care giver, what are the definition of that , I have worked part time and taken and picked the kids up from school and looked after them around my part time job. He worked full time and helped out at times, but nothing major. In the school holidays they were always my responsibility he never took any time off to help me out. We are still living together, I think his solicitor has tried to make out he needs to prove he has been the primary care giver, so he is racing to do the washing racing to buy the food, trying to take my oldest to the dentist and to all her music lessons and . If he doesn't get to do these things he says I am stopping him from seeing his children.
He rings me all the time, and basically makes up all the "rules" communication between us is impossible. If I go to the park after school I am suppose to report into him, not that I ever have in the past, but now he expects me to report everything. Then he says I am being unreasonable if I don't say and do as he wishes.
He has always worked full time until recently, please can anyone tell me where I stand, it likely to be taken into account that he has been doing all things hes been doing.
thanks