My DH left in Jan 17 my choice he was removed by police. Since he been gone he is very very bitter. But he keeps Willy nillingly texting the kids saying he is on his way to come see then . He has blocked me so I can have no contact with him. I keep panicking he will show up at the house ( past domestic abuse and huge huge temper ) he sought mediation however at 84 pound a session and being off on long term sick (anxiety and depression) I cannot afford it, or a solicitor. he pays maintenance but less then what cms say he should and seldomly has them overnight , last week he woke the household up at 5am to hand the children Xmas gifts he bought for them despite me saying 5am is too early (he was on route to work) because he got them all gifts probably spent about 50 each on them he deducted this out of my maintenance so I am once again short this month. Cms said it will take up to April to get an attachment of earnings order in place. I'm just hitting my head against a brick wall here