Have name changed as I do regularly as I've been outed before.
My STBXH and I have gone from originally amicable when he moved out in April this year to toxic / no communication as of August.
I am trying to play everything by the book, using solicitor for divorce, submitted claim to CMS for maintenance and keeping communication minimal and only through email.
Tonight, I have heard from my DD that she has spent the night with a family member that I have expressly requested her not to stay at (for valid reasons).
This was his only night to have his daughter this week and instead he's palmed her off to a relation who (potentially) can't be trusted.
I want to get a prohibited steps order in place to stop this happening again - if he told me he couldn't have her, I would have.
Before I can request any type of court order, I need to prove that we've tried meditation so I've emailed this evening requesting mediation but I really don't want to have to be in the same room as him.
I'm hoping he will refuse so I can just go ahead with the court request and show that I've tried but this is just another step in this exhausting, ridiculous situation that I find myself in.
Anyone got any experience / words of wisdom?
Mediation - don't want to but have to
Onwardsandupdwards · 20/12/2018 19:34
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