My partner is currently going through court to get access to his 11 month old daughter (please don’t judge, his ex left him the second she found out she was pregnant and told him ‘I have what I wanted from you now’) and he has tried constantly since H was born to be in her life but he has always been refused so was left no choice but to go down the court option.
In the first hearing she accused my partner of being a drug addict and also being suicidal which resulted in him only being allowed contact in a contact centre (at the cost of £40 an hour) for 8 weeks and until he had taken a drugs test and also spoken to his Dr to get his medical history. TO absolutely no shock to us at all the drugs test came back with absolutely no traces of drugs in his system and also his Dr report came back with no history for Stress, depression or suicide. At the second hearing he was granted 2 hours a week to have his daughter at a soft play area of his choice but Mum had to stay there (out of sight of baby H) but still in the area. As you can imagine this has not been at all easy and he has been physically attached by his Ex’s mum who turned up there on the weekend.
His final court hearing was due to take place on the 14th Dec but unfortunately his ex’s brother committed suicide so he applied to the courts to have the court hearing adjourned, reluctantly my partner agreed to this (under the awful circumstances) but on the grounds that as of the 14th Dec he has Baby H un supervised for 4 hours every weekend up until the final hearing. Originally, she refused this and offered 2 hours but eventually agreed to the 4 hours but on the grounds that under no circumstances I was around Baby H. Obviously this makes me sad, but my main concern is that my partner gets to spend quality time with his daughter. However, we have just been advised that she has now told the courts that she is moving 4 ½ hours away from us with Baby H.
As you can imagine my partner is besides himself at the thought of her being so far away and we know that this is just an attempt to ensure I am not around Baby H as for some unknown reason he HATES ME!!!
This woman is pure evil and will do anything to cause as much upset and hurt to my partner as possible and we now feel we are in a lose lose situation.
In the last year and a half she has had 5 calls made against her to the police (one of these was me) 3 calls to social services, lied about my ex in court and been proved to be a liar and now she is trying to move away with his daughter.
Can anyone give any advice on what we could possibly to or has anyone else been through this that could give us a little bit of an idea of how this may plan out considering her awful past. We have text messages off her telling my partner that she will do what ever it takes to keep baby H away from us. Both me and my partner have never been involved with police no has my son (different dad) ever been under social services and no have his 2 other children. Him and the mother of his 2 other children get on very well and so do me and her so this is no reflection on us as people but purely a reflection on Baby H’s mum.
Any advice or past experience would be very much apprecisted