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Confused about feelings for exh

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recoveryishard · 27/11/2018 19:58

We have been separated 2.5 years, relationship was abusive, he has been nasty a few time since but all in all ok.

The last few says I've been feeling like I may still love him/miss him and I don't understand why.

Since he left he's turned into a much better dad, takes them out all the time but when he was with me he never wanted to do anything.

He also has a new gf which I was ok with (even though he introduced her to the kids without telling me!?) and I guess I'm jealous of all the things they do together that he would never do with me. He went with her to see a musical that I begged him to go to and he wouldn't. They have just had a 3 week holiday and I'm sad because it makes me remember all our holidays together and the good time we did have. I suppose I'm jealous that he has someone and I don't and that after the way he treated me he gets to be happy while I struggle with being a single mum, have mental health issues and feel lonely.

I thought I was past all this, I hated everything about him last week and now I'm so confused and upset I don't know what to do?!

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