Hello everyone. Well back in June I decided to leave my husband, it was over back in the October but due to circumstances I couldn't leave (joint house etc) ... Now whilst I should be thrilled that it's all finally over I am feeling very low because of what has been going on recently. Reason I knew it was over in October was because I found out when I was down my local pub one evening with a friend having a quiet drink that my husband was on a dating website, a girl who we both new came up and showed me the profile..the photo of himself was taken in our bedroom and the description was him to a T..of course he never admitted it but his face told a different story. Also I may like to add this wasn't the first time something online and dating websites had happened, I put up with alot of it over a number of years. Just don't understand why he didn't leave me to do all of that without having to do it behind my back. Now, I am moved out with our child in my own home and I feel much better about it but his family have made me feel like I'm the horrible bad person for leaving, seeming to forget what he used to do and put me through, never got on with them that much anyway but I don't even get a text off any of them to see how their grandson is and when I see them the atmosphere is very cold and I'm uncomfortable and tbh it's just making me feel so down and making me feel like the bad one. Anyone else been in a situation similar? I know people say try not to take notice of other people but I find it hard and I especially don't like to be made out to be the bad one after all of the crap I put up with and over and over again I just stayed around. Any advice on this would be appreciated xx