Hi guys, fully prepared for the bashing I’m more than likely going to get but I thought I’d come here for advice..
So basically me and DH have a 3 year old son who we adore dearly.
However things just aren’t the same in my marriage. Following a car crash DH was diagnosed with anxiety and depression (as have I)
For the past year he’s been turning to smoking cannabis as a way to help deal with his anxiety. He’s increasingly smoking it more and more but not actually doing anything to help his anxiety for him or us. I understand his anxiety as I have it myself yet I manage to make sure my son is taken to preschool and recently enrolled to college to better myself.
All the while he sits at home playing video games. We’ve had so many arguments over him smoking and he thinks I speak to my friends more than him now.
I’ve desperately tried to salvage this marriage. I’m only 27 and just feel like it’s getting to the point I can do no more.
He loses his temper very quickly (especially when driving) and in my opinion overly strict with our son.
Previous arguments have turned into me compromising with him and cannabis as he’s outright told me he won’t stop..
Just needed some advice from people who aren’t in the equation..