When filling in our Form E at mediation we agreed to exclude mine and his pension from before we met, and also the cars.
Now I am trying to get us to agree some other figures and could do with some pointers.
He had 50k of a matured endowment policy and used it as a deposit to buy himself a house. He is now saying that this asset is only worth 37k because he had to spend 8k on stamp duty and 5k to allow for selling costs. Am I unreasonable in that I think the asset to be split is 50k?
He also now wants to add 5k of his that he used to buy our first house.
What is reasonable here, bearing in mind we are looking to split 1.1m