Hi I've received so much advice and support from reading all the posts on this topic oh are all amazing.
I've been unhappy for 3 years of our 9 year marriage 2 children age 8 and 12. We tried marriage counselling 2 years ago, separated for a short time earlier this year and a make or break holiday in April, but still I am miserably happy and have accepted that my husband will never change his ways despite me spelling it out to him, I think he doesn't want to or think he should change.
Anyway 3 days ago I told him it's properly over and I'm moving out, ever since he wants to have long conversations/arguments about sorting it out, how he can change, how I'm throwing everything away, everything he has done for us etc etc
I really can't see me changing or going back but how do I get him to accept it? I am planning on moving out but the house isn't ready for another 6 weeks 

Thanks for reading x