My ex partner wants to take me to the CSA, however I already give him money and I have the children at the weekends so I have to pay for them when their with me. I buy them clothes, shoes and give them pocket money.
How does this work? I'm worried about it because if he had his way, he'd happily sit on benefits and get CSA from me. He says I'm getting off lightly. At this time he's going for 100% custody of the children. He limits me from having them in the week. I can only have them at the weekends. His excuse is that because their school is near him they should live with him, which I adhered too. but now he's making me feel guilty all the time saying he does everything. I'm lost. I can't appease him. All I want is my children with me, but because I have a mental disorder (which is under control, so I'm technically well). He's using this to his advantage. I'm very unhappy about it. He wants more money. I have no idea what to do because he says they'll take 40% of my salary and I wont be able to live on that. I have a mortgage and debt. What do i do?