So after crying for nearly 3 night now I finally am seeking some help- your help to understand if I am overreacting and what should I expect now
Been married 6 years, 2 year dc who is very sensitive and needs mummy all the time.
H has been very very distant for last 2 year more so last few months. Works long hours and I mostly manage Dc on my own and work full time.
So he told me 3 days back our relationship doesn’t seem to work ( after long spells of no talking/cold shoulder etc). I asked abt OW and answer was no but then said- well that’s different. It’s one sided anyhow. I broke at that moment but continued discussion as I wanted answers. And he said will give us few months to see what we do - 80-20 chance of staying together or separation.
I never saw it coming!! What a fool I am!
Day 2 nothing much, casual talk as if nthng happened but cold treatment.
Yesterday I asked him to tell me honestly and after a lot of coercion he said he think he loves a girl who works with him (married).
But insisted it’s nothing to do with her n how he felt unloved blah blah kind of everything is my fault that I was rude,don’t treat him well etc
He is most of the time at work m this women basically sat next to him!
I don’t understand how this could happen !!
I feel cheated and lied to and made the bad guy! Am I wrong?? I hv no one to talk to!
He said he wants to give our relationship a chance but how will that work with him being with that girl day in day out!
I am scared of what’s to follow and what this could do to DC!
Any experiences / suggestions to help me through this? Is there any hope for us??