My ex and I were married for 20 years, he earns approx. 52k and I earn approx. 28k. We both have pensions, mine is final salary and his is a Company pension so he considers mine to be better. I was also part time for about 10 years when our daughter was young. My new partner has offered to buy my ex out of our property but the ex has rejected the offer and is asking for a certain figure and if we won't pay he is threatening to go for my pension. Can he do this given my earnings are significantly less?