Looking to have my share of equity

[pinkkoala]

My nisci was granted on 24th apr and can apply for absolute on 6th june.
Couple of questions.
Ex h is still being devious and sly, his new partner and child stay over in the marital home, i left with dd as it was abusive, he refused to leave. I am now in private rental property and have a lovely new partner, tenancy is in my name only.
I would like my share approx 50k from the marital home, he is unable to take on more mortage and is refusing to buy me out. He has our dd stay over 2 nights a week as i work nights.
Do you think i will be able to have my share or will i have to wait til dd is 18. He pays very little mortage compared to my rent, i have no financial support from him for dd, he didnt have solicitor for the divorce as he said he wasnt going to pay for anything.
I would like my share asap in order to move on.
Also can i apply for absolute before finances are sorted.

Yes you will be able to but you need to apply to family court for a financial settlement. You can get the forms on line or speak to a lawyer ideally.

They may order than the home is sold for you to get your equity.

Ive just got an order dor exh to buy me out but he has the funds to do this.

You can apply for the absolute before it's sorted. there may be some ramifications but not as mucu as people think. Again, lawyer.

Can i use one of these online divorve companies to do my financial order as my solicitor is charging me loads of fees.
Also what are my chances of getting my share of the value, he will put up a fight and makes like he is the victim.
His words to me are you chose to leave. And that he has always paid the mortgage.
What he forgets to remember is that i paid all the utilities and all things for dd.
He also has debts in his name only, will i have to take some of my share to clear his debts.

You are married. Who paid the mortgage is irrelevant.
A financial settlement is your right. Not something he 'decides to allow you'.
Like all services on the internet some are great some not. Do your research, use a company from personal recommendation or use a respected review programme like Trust Pilot but friends have used online divorce companies and been very happy with them.