I have been separated from my sons Father for 6 years now. I left as I was a young woman at the time and couldn't deal with the controlling nature. He is a good as a parent however is is vile towards me. My son came back after a weekend with him with heat stroke and bad sunburn on his shoulders. He is saying to me today that I'm only arguing with him as I still want him. I felt sick to my stomach, was shaking and had to hang up when he said that. I called back when I'd calmed down as obviously my son is my main interest. What on earth do I do now? Why would someone who knows he was a domestic abuser continue to wind me up like this. Court won't help as they'd allow supervised visits then access. I don't know how I can mentally deal with this overweight disgusting older pig in my life anymore. I have a partner of 2 and a half years who is perfect but we don't live together. I don't want to burdon him with the issue. I actually cannot believe my abusive ex said that the reason I'm angry is due to me having feelings for him. I feel sick right now.