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Divorce/separation

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How can I discuss things calmly?

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brucebogtrotter · 23/04/2018 20:20

A month ago, my husband told me he didn't love me, and left. This was, for me, completely out of the blue and almost indescribably painful.
He's now very eager to sort finances, house, child maintenance etc. I will have to sit down with him and discuss these things, but it's still extremely raw for me, and I feel increasingly angry at what he's done.
How can I stay calm and keep emotion out of it?!

OP posts:
Karmelita · 27/04/2018 15:13

I'm so sorry, OP. This is a shite situation to be in. If you can, delay having this conversation. Take a time-out. If you work, pretend you're going on a business trip.
Also, consult your GP for a mild sedative to fence off the overwhelming feeling of misery.
Take good care of yourself. Brew

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