Feeling awful

[Kittycat124]

Hi

My STBXH asked for a divorce at Christmas 2017. As he couldn’t think of a reason to divorce me (he just didn’t love me anymore) , I had to apply for the divorce as his behaviour towards me had been unreasonable for months.

I have found out the real reason for divorce is that he’s found another woman. As she was in our social circle, I have left our mutual hobby groups as I can’t bear seeing them together.

We had agreed the division of property, but he has since changed his mind.

I just feel crap where as he’s moved on to his new life. He won’t give the keys back to the house until the consent order is through. I feel unsafe in my own home as he has accessed it when I wasn’t there. He won’t tell me his new address so I can forward mail

I feel my friends are all fed up with me atm

I still haven’t received my decree nisi and my public service CETV will also delay things.

Anyone else feel like this? I am just looking for support from people who understand 😢😢

Sorry to hear you are having a tough time. Whilst he is on mortgage he unfortunately has the right to come in the house. However keep a key in lock so you know he can’t get in whilst you are home.

Hopefully he won’t anyway.

It what way has he changed his mind? You’ll have to both declare everything and it will need to be fair for judge to agree.

If you are just keeping your own pensions you don’t have to wait as long as don’t need full breakdown.